One of the many things I have learned as a grownup woman/mom is that there is just nothing quite like a good girlfriend, and I am so thankful that God has blessed me with some soul mate quality girlfriends!
You have heard me talk about sweet Elise before. How wonderful to have a friendship that lasts across the globe, and I think has even grown as we have been apart....and what a celebration we will have when she returns home for a few months later this year!!! =) When I said goodbye to Elise the night before she left, I cried harder than I ever remember crying in my life! I could hardly breathe as I drove away from her (tears are filling my eyes as I remember this night!) and then when I got home I collapsed on the couch with heaving sobs! My poor sweet husband...He came over to the couch and put his hand on my back and said, "Sweetheart, you need to calm down. Elise is moving, not dying. You will see her again." He was right, but Elise and I had probably not had many days that had passed that we didn't spend at least a few minutes together and if we didn't see eachother, we almost certainly talked on the phone. Elise was the first friend that I had that really was a true, unconditional friend. There was no pretense with Elise. She was real and was the first friend that I felt I could be 100% myself with. I didn't have to think about what I did or said, I knew that we were friends no matter what. She encourages you, just by being with you. She challenges you without even knowing it and has a heart for others and for Jesus that I desire. She is a friend like I never imagined I would have. So to me this river of tears was totally appropriate. I really was mourning this "loss". How in the world would I survive without her.
Well, funny thing, there was another gal who was grieving this same loss. This gal was a friend of Elise's that I had known as an acquaintance, and we had gotten to know each other a little more in the months before Elise left, as neither of us wanted to leave Elise's side! After Elise left that other greiving gal and I have developed a beautiful friendship. Alysia and I would both agree that our friendships with Elise could never, ever be replaced, we both have been surprised that our friendship runs as deep. And the great thing...the common bond that brought us together is Elise...so this friendship is a gift that she gave us that perhaps wouldn't have been if she hadn't followed the Lords leading to Africa!
Elise and Alysia...I love you girls! And I am SO thankful for what you add to my life!
Here is a pic of Alysia I grabbed this week when she came to show me her new haircut!